Hello
Now, you are involved with this so wonderful person, who is
so dissimilar from you. We are talking about a person from a completely different
culture. She/he was born in this country which is now your home, consequently,
she/he was risen speaking another language, having other habits…
However, you are in love, but most of the time you understand
nothing about one´s interest or point of view. You are really making an effort,
you are awake that you are the outsider. But, loving should be an experience
for relaxing and feeling at home. Now, you do not feel at home never… It is
very hard.
First of all, you might try explaining to this person what
are you feeling now, but avoiding to blame your partner. You need to
communicate what is hart to you, so, my piece of advice is follow the next
pathway: talk about what do you think is the reason of the problem, next what
do you feel about, what do you believe it is the reason behind the problem and
what would you prefer your partner make instead.
Second, keep always in mind that it is never a good idea
trying to make your partner feel bad or sad. So, make an effort to use well
your words.
Finally, be sure you let your partner know that you want to
solve the problem because you love each other.
In case you need more advance, you may contact me by tahirirojas@gmail.com or you can reach
many other advices in https://www.regain.us/
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